The practice of deep abdominal breathing on a regular basis can help you
feel more relaxed and at ease. Deep breathing increases oxygen flow to the
body and brain, decreases negative thinking, improves concentration, and
improves the excretion of bodily toxins. Below is an easy and useful deep
breathing exercise.
The 5-second breath
Take a slow deep breath that fills about 5 seconds of time for each
breath (about 2½ seconds inhale, 21/2 seconds exhale).
You can use the second hand on a clock or watch to time your breath.
Use of the second hand can help direct your attention to the deep breath
and your experience of relaxation.
Your chest, torso, and stomach will expand on the inhale and
contract on the exhale. As you expand on the inhale, your lungs fill
deeply.
Breath through your mouth or nose, whichever feels more comfortable.
Try taking one minutes worth of the 5-second breaths. You can do
this 3-5 times per day for maximum effect.
Deep relaxation exercise
Deep relaxation is more than relaxing in front of the TV or curling
up with a good book. Deep relaxation is a distinct physiological
experience of slowing down your body, mind and emotions to a comfortable
relaxed state. Below is a step-by-step approach to doing a deep
relaxation exercise. You can do it for up to 20 minutes one or more
times daily.
1.) Find a comfortable and quiet place to sit or lie
down. Allow your body and mind to shift into relaxation without falling
asleep.
2.) Take 10 slow, deep, cleansing breaths. As you do this, your
breathing can settle into its own comfortable pace and depth.
3.) Your experience of relaxation can deepen as you notice any of the
following:
You can notice the sounds around you and within you.
You can notice the physical sensations in your body, like your
breath going in and out.
You can notice any thoughts that float in and out of your mind,
like fluffy white clouds on a sunny, breezy, blue-sky day.
You can notice any images in your mind that can deepen your
experience of relaxation and increase your sense of comfort and
security. You can notice images of pleasant places in nature,
favorite relaxing activities you enjoy doing or whatever images you
find pleasing and relaxing.
4.) You can return to the present moment refreshed and alert.
References
Several good resources on relaxation techniques include the
following books both published by New Harbinger Publishers.
The Relaxation & Stress Reduction Workbook by Matthew
McKay
The Anxiety & Phobia Workbook by Edmund J. Bourne.