Location

Monasteries are usually located in beautiful, serene settings that may feature several buildings, a garden, a tree grove, and a lake.

Reasons for Going

This is one of the most important points to consider! Think about what you hope to accomplish by going on this retreat. For example, you may want to:

• Begin a spiritual journey
• Build a stronger relationship with your higher power
• Learn how to meditate
• Renew your body and mind
• Release yourself from a hectic schedule
• Devote time to reading something spiritual

Discover your own reasons for going on a retreat!

Religious Practices

While a monastery is usually thought of as home for Christian monks, there are actually monasteries for people who follow Buddhism, Hinduism, as well as other religions and philosophies. And, in general, monasteries are open to people of all faiths and backgrounds. Therefore, if you are new to the Zen school of Buddhism, for instance, that is perfectly okay! You just need to choose a retreat that is right for you.

Length of Stay

This really depends on you! There are retreats that last a weekend, several weekdays, an entire week, or even longer. If you are thinking of staying at a monastery near your home, you can even plan a brief visit to talk with the people in charge of guest relations.

Schedule

Each monastery offers a unique schedule to meet various needs. For example, you may want to go on a directed retreat where you attend conferences during the day, meet with a spiritual leader, and read recommended spiritual texts. On the other hand, you may choose to do a private retreat that allows you to spend time alone in prayer and meditation.

Lodging

Think simplicity! You can expect the monastery to offer a dorm-style atmosphere where you may be sharing a bedroom and bathroom with other guests of the same gender. In order to ensure a peaceful environment, you most likely will not be allowed to bring a computer, mp3 player, cell phone, or other electronic devices. However, most monasteries do have a library, so you can spend your free time reading.

Meals

Meals are typically very basic and served in the dining hall at set times throughout the day. Some monasteries have strict rules about meals, though, like not eating before noon or having only two meals a day. In some cases, guests are encouraged to eat their meals in silent meditation.

Manual Labor

Manual labor is an important part of a monk’s life. Because of this, guests may also take part in the duties around the monastery, like cleaning or gardening.

Clothes

No need to wear fancy clothes during your stay! Simple, comfortable clothes and shoes are fine for the monastery.

Cost

Monasteries may not be clear about the cost per night. But, in general, you can expect that it may cost $60-$100 per night. Of course, a more generous contribution will be greatly appreciated by the monks!

Special Considerations

You may be surprised to discover that there are several monasteries in the state that you live in. But, what if you have your heart set on traveling outside of the United States?

Take the same precautions that you would for any other trip abroad. Research the area on the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) website, and make an appointment with your doctor to find out if you need any vaccinations or medicines before your journey.

No matter where you are staying, take the initiative to ask about the cleanliness of the monastery, especially the kitchen facilities. You can also take other steps to be healthy, like getting a flu shot and washing your hands often. These precautions can help you to stay healthy while you are creating a spiritual connection.